How the ‘bad boy curse’ locked in reality star victims from Shaughna Phillips to Georgia Steel & red flags to look for

ARE you one of those people who always finds themselves falling for a bad boy?

Well, you're not alone - with a whole host of reality stars, including the likes of Love Island's Georgia Steel and former TOWIE star Lauren Goodger, all hooking up with convicts - including fraudsters and drug dealers.

Georgia and Bear met on The Challenge: War Of The Worlds and The Challenge: War Of The Worlds 2 on MTV
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Georgia and Bear met on The Challenge: War Of The Worlds and The Challenge: War Of The Worlds 2 on MTVCredit: BackGrid
Dani Dyer dumped ex Sammy Kimmence after learning about his sick fraud
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Dani Dyer dumped ex Sammy Kimmence after learning about his sick fraudCredit: GC Images

Former Love Island contestant Shaughna Phillips most recently detailed the reality of taking her daughter Lucia to visit her father in prison.

She was 30 weeks pregnant when Billy Webb, 29, was busted for drug offences after a police raid.

He was later sentenced to nine years in jail after admitting conspiracy to supply 4.5kg of cocaine worth at least £360,000.

"It's the last place on earth I'd hope to take a baby," she revealed, speaking to OK! magazine.

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But according to relationship expert Tina Wilson, there's a reason why bad boys could be turning their attention to reality stars.

"People often fall for romance fraudsters or bad boys due to a combination of factors, including the prospect of an exciting or unconventional lifestyle," she explains, speaking exclusively to Fabulous Digital.

"The intense media scrutiny that reality stars face can amplify this susceptibility, as their lives are constantly on display, making them more prone to seeking relationships that appear glamorous or adventurous.

"The curated images and carefully crafted narratives on social media platforms may attract reality stars to partners who embody the glamorous facade.

People often fall for romance fraudsters or bad boys due to a combination of factors, including the prospect of an exciting or unconventional lifestyle

Tina WilsonRelationship expert

"The gap between the perceived lifestyle and actual reality can create disillusionment, leading to failed relationships as they are not built on trust."

The relationship guru goes on to point out the red flag to look out for.

"Anyone living an aspirational lifestyle can become more susceptible to individuals who use tactics such as romance scamming or even a new version of catfishing for only self-interested reasons," she warns.

"These individuals deploy textbook moves to quickly win over their new love.

"They will move and act fast, employing classic love-bombing techniques to create an illusion of intense connection.

"They want to establish this bond before their target realises the deception, keeping them in the honeymoon phase for as long as possible."

GEORGIA STEEL

Georgia Steel was devastated to learn her  lover was convicted fraudster Medi Abalimba
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Georgia Steel was devastated to learn her lover was convicted fraudster Medi AbalimbaCredit: Instagram
Medi Abalimba admitted 15 counts of fraud between 1 January 2021 and 1 March 2021 and was jailed for 50 months
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Medi Abalimba admitted 15 counts of fraud between 1 January 2021 and 1 March 2021 and was jailed for 50 monthsCredit: Not known, clear with picture desk

She may be causing a stir in the villa, but Love Island's Georgia Steel has had her fair share of heartbreak - after finding out her ex was actually a conman who had stolen £160k of her savings.

The 25-year-old, from Yorkshire, was left “too terrified to sleep and fearing for her life” when The Sun Online revealed her lover was convicted fraudster Medi Abalimba.

The one-time Derby County player, who met Georgia at a club, was put behind bars in 2014 after pretending to be ex-Chelsea footballer Gael Kakuta.

“Because I'm a good person, if I see a broken person or a person upset, I really like to fix it," she said previously.

“I thought I could fix him and accept his past and everything. But I didn't understand how bad his past was.

“I had no idea of how capable he was, because I would never be with someone who could hurt people like that. The stories kept coming out and things kept getting worse.”

She continued: “I went on my online banking and I noticed a drastic amount had just gone. I was in my flat and I've never been in a situation like that in my life.

“I was physically sick. I sat on my sofa and thought I was going to faint.”

However, in 2021, the fraudster found himself jailed again after scamming footballer Thierry Henry's ex wife out of £160,000.

He admitted 15 counts of fraud between 1 January 2021 and 1 March 2021 and was locked up for 50 months.

Abalimba so far has 32 previous convictions to his name - 20 of which are for fraud.

DANI DYER

Dani's ex Sammy Kimmence scammed two vulnerable pensioners out of £34,000 shortly after the birth of their son, Santiago
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Dani's ex Sammy Kimmence scammed two vulnerable pensioners out of £34,000 shortly after the birth of their son, SantiagoCredit: Social Media - Refer to Source
Sammy served three-and-a-half-years for his sick fraud
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Sammy served three-and-a-half-years for his sick fraudCredit: Instagram, Hampshire Constabulary

Dani Dyer was left devastated when Sammy Kimmence, 26, was locked up last year for scamming two vulnerable pensioners out of £34,000 shortly after the birth of their son, Santiago.

Sammy initially denied all charges - but changed his plea at the last minute to guilty.

While Love Islander Dani dumped the fraudster, who served three-and-a-half-years, after learning of his sick fraud, she told how she's "tied by blood."

“You are never really friends with your ex-boyfriend. It's a little bit different in my situation," she said, speaking on her and dad Danny's the Sorted with the Dyers podcast.

“Obviously, I will always have a relationship with Santi's dad, it's very different when you have children.

“You're tied together by blood and you're always going to have a relationship there. But there's still a line.”

FERNE MCCANN

Ferne McCann and Arthur Collins dated for around a year
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Ferne McCann and Arthur Collins dated for around a yearCredit: instagram
Arthur Collins was locked up for 20 years in 2017
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Arthur Collins was locked up for 20 years in 2017Credit: EPA

The former TOWIE star's ex Arthur Collins was locked up for 20 years in 2017 after being found guilty of a horrific acid attack in a London nightclub that left 14 people injured.

The convict, who is the father of Ferne's daughter, Sunday — was found guilty of the April 2017 attack after a trial at the Wood Green Crown Court.

Following the acid attack and Collins' arrest, Ferne released a statement confirming she was pregnant but had split from Collins.

Breaking down on This Morning, she said: “This isn’t how I imagined my first pregnancy to be, but this isn’t about me… my main concern and priority is the baby.”

LAUREN GOODGER

Lauren Goodger started dating ex Joey Morrison when he was in jail in 2016
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Lauren Goodger started dating ex Joey Morrison when he was in jail in 2016Credit: Instagram
Joey was serving a 16-year prison sentence for drug-related offences
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Joey was serving a 16-year prison sentence for drug-related offencesCredit: Fame Flynet, Police

Lauren Goodger started dating ex Joey Morrison in 2016 while he was serving a lengthy prison sentence for a string of violent drugs-related charges, including possession of a firearm, kidnapping, blackmail and actual bodily harm.

Joey and an accomplice, Marvin Russell Jacobs, who were both 24 at the time, were handed 16-year prison sentences.

Morrisson and Jacobs were caught after forensic examinations linked objects left at the scene to the pair.

When Morrisson was arrested, in September 2009, he was found in possession of £10,000 in cash and £60,000 worth of cocaine.

Despite talks of marriage and kids, the former TOWIE star announced she had broken up with Joey in July 2017 after the pair had a furious row inside HMP Highpoint South.

He was released from jail on September 19, 2018.

Speaking of Joey to new! magazine, she said: "I regret giving two and a half years of my life to someone who was in jail."

AMY CHILDS

Amy Childs' ex boyfriend Bradley Wright found himself in prison after being found guilty of arson, handling stolen goods and dangerous driving
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Amy Childs' ex boyfriend Bradley Wright found himself in prison after being found guilty of arson, handling stolen goods and dangerous drivingCredit: Refer to Caption
Amy and Bradley split in 2017 shortly after Polly was born
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Amy and Bradley split in 2017 shortly after Polly was bornCredit: Instagram

The former TOWIE star previously told how her daughter Polly calls her grandfather "dad."

That's because her baby's real dad, Bradley Wright, was jailed after being found guilty of arson, handling stolen goods and dangerous driving.

Amy was with Bradley on and off for several years until their split in 2017, shortly after Polly was born.

“I want a stable family unit. I'm not looking for someone to be my kids’ dads because they have dads but yes I'm looking for someone who will take them on as their own," Amy previously told The Sun.

“It is hard. Polly's dad is in prison. She doesn't see him.”

The reality star, who last year welcomed twins Billy and Millie with boyfriend Billy Delbosq, continued: “Polly calls my dad 'dad'.

“My dad is the only father figure Polly has known. I went to Turkey with my mum and dad and Polly kept calling me mum and my dad, dad.

“It was so strange. Everyone kept thinking me and my dad were together. It was weird. But at the same time my dad is an amazing dad.”

Amy added: “He would never let Polly down. My parents have been brilliant with both the kids.”

GEORGIA HARRISON

Georgia said she nearly died fighting Bear for two-and-a-half years
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Georgia said she nearly died fighting Bear for two-and-a-half yearsCredit: Instagram
Stephen Bear was found guilty of voyeurism and two counts of disclosing private, sexual photographs and films
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Stephen Bear was found guilty of voyeurism and two counts of disclosing private, sexual photographs and filmsCredit: The Mega Agency

Georgia, 29, who is currently in the Love Island All Stars villa, met disgraced reality star Stephen Bear when they both appeared on The Challenge: War Of The Worlds and The Challenge: War Of The Worlds 2 on MTV.

But in December 2020, sick reality star Bear uploaded CCTV footage of the pair having sex to his OnlyFans account that was filmed without Georgia's knowledge.

Georgia - who waived her right to anonymity - reported the former Ex on the Beach star to the police and he was found guilty of voyeurism and two counts of disclosing private, sexual photographs and films.

He was banged up in HMP Brixton for 21 months after posting the secret video on Only Fans - and served just 11 months into his jail sentence.

The star said she nearly died fighting him for two-and-a-half years and explained: “When it first happened, the physical effects on me were just horrific.

"I had acne come up all over my face. I ended up getting a cyst infection — the cyst eventually burst — and I was in hospital from stress.

“They said my kidneys, my pelvis, and multiple organs were infected, and I was going into septic shock.”

SHAUGHNA PHILLIPS

Shaughna Phillips recently spoke out about taking her daughter Lucia to visit her dad Billy in prison
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Shaughna Phillips recently spoke out about taking her daughter Lucia to visit her dad Billy in prisonCredit: Click News and Media

The former Love Island contestant, who starred in the 2020 winter series, was 30 weeks pregnant when the father of her child Billy Webb, 29, was busted for drug offences after a police raid.

He was charged with one count of possession with intent to supply a Class A drug and one count of being concerned in the supply of controlled drugs on January 21 last year.

Billy was sentenced to nine years in jail last November after admitting conspiracy to supply 4.5kg of cocaine worth at least £360,000.

The 29-year-old recently defended her decision to take her daughter to see her father in prison.

"I don't tend to say prison," she said, speaking of the jail visits.

"I think that's such a dirty word. It's not the p word - I say, like, he's away and I think people think he's in the army.

"Lucia is not going to know any of this, but had she have known, yeah, he probably would have been working at Disneyland. Because he sure as hell ain't going to be able to go America!"

On the latest episode of her podcast, Oh, Baby with Shaughna and Holly, she continued: "We had quite a few visits leading up to Christmas - and had one visit that was six hours.

"It's a family day and it's so much nicer than a normal visit. On normal visits, which are an hour, you can only sit opposite each other.

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"He can hold the baby and all of that, but you can't really get up with her or anything.

"So, the six hour one was intense, but it was really nice to see him with her and it actually gives me a break. I walk in, I'm like, here's your kid, no one talked to me."