I’m a 22-year-old mum – women constantly dress-code me but guys are begging to be my son’s stepdad
A 22-YEAR-OLD mother has revealed what it’s really like to be a young mum.
Ali Dancer, 22, explained that women constantly dress-code her, whilst guys are quick to question the whereabouts of her child’s father.
Posting on social media, the mum-of-one explained that guys beg to be her son’s stepdad, whilst others comment on her age as a mother.
Ali shared the short clip online with the caption ‘POV: Going out as a young mum’ and then revealed the comments she often hears as a mother in her early twenties.
The eyelash technician said: “POV: You go out for drinks, while being a young mum”, and then claimed that whilst on a night out, men will come up to her and say: “If you ever need a babysitter, let me know.”
Not only this, but the blonde beauty then shared a picture of three random young men, as she claimed that such men will come up to her and ask: “Yo, where’s your baby daddy?”
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If that wasn’t enough, when on a night out, Ali claimed that older women will often make the same rude comment to her.
Ali shared a stock image of a group of women, as she claimed that women will look at her and say: “I could never dress like that as a mum.”
But as well as this, Ali then shared a stock image of a random man, as she claimed such men will comment on her choice to have a child at a young age.
She claimed that men will rudely remark: “You should have waited until you were 30 to have children.”
Ali also added that women will regularly give her backhanded compliments, as she claimed that some young women will look at her and say: “You look really good… for someone who’s had a baby.”
The young woman also explained that when guys will approach her on a night out, they will often make the same crude comment.
Ali posted an image of a random man posing, as she claimed that men will often say to her: “I’d look after you and your son and be stepdad.”
Finally, Ali explained that groups of mothers will approach her and say: “You should join us on our next mum brunch.”
The TikTok clip, which was posted under the username @ali_dancerx, has clearly left many open-mouthed, as it has quickly amassed a whopping 45,800 views.
Many other mothers could relate to Ali’s claims and were eager to express this in the comments.
One person said: “These plus ‘I thought you’d be home with your kid’.”
Another added: “What about the ones that accuse you of not looking after your kids? Always see those on Facebook.”
A third commented: “You forgot the “who’s looking after the baby then?” comments.”
At the same time, another parent claimed: “I just get ‘you shouldn’t be drinking when you have a kid at home’.”
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Whilst another mum shared: “Or the “milf” comments hahaha.”
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