I’m a virgin at 33 – I get plenty of offers but men need to meet my ‘10 commandments’ – I won’t go home with anyone
A WOMAN who is still a virgin at 33 has revealed her ’10 commandments’ for her perfect match - and will stay single and celibate until she finds a suitor.
Danyelle Noble says she has always been happy on her own and despite wanting a relationship, she’s not ready to settle for just anyone, not even for a one-night stand.
The dancer from Jupiter, Florida, explained that she has a list of requirements that her ideal man would meet before she'd consider taking things to a serious level.
She says: “There are ten things I look for in a man.
“He needs to be family oriented, genuine, kind-hearted, tall, fit, has a love of travel, loves the outdoors, is daring, hasn’t been married before, humour, stability and he respects me.
"I used to get embarrassed to tell people, I would just lie and say no I’m not a virgin, but being able to talk about it more makes me realise that there’s nothing wrong with that and a lot of guys actually do respect that."
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Danyelle told how growing up she never had an interest in dating and always focused on her studies rather than worrying about getting a date.
She was never asked on any dates by boys in her school either, so was never given that first push into the dating world.
She explained that since getting older, she has been put off the idea of a relationship as she doesn’t want something meaningless.
However, Danyelle did layout a 10 year plan which included being married and having kids within the next decade but her plan came crashing down when she realised she didn’t want to settle for just anyone.
The dancer is on the hunt for her perfect person who shares the same values as her and wants the same things out of life and refuses to take anyone home until they meet her standards.
She revealed how she isn't the type of person to get intimate with someone after a couple of dates and wants to make sure that it feels right before jumping under the covers.
HIGH STANDARDS
She adds: “I’m very picky, I know what I want.
“I have high standards and I’m not messing around - I’m not here to date and just sleep with guys.
“A lot of my friends use dating apps and go home with the guy on the first night but that’s just not me.
"I’m not someone who goes on a date with someone and goes back to their house to sleep with. I’m at the age in my life where when I find the right person I know it’ll be worth it.
Danyelle's 10 commandments
· Family oriented
· Genuine
· Kind-hearted
· Taller than her
· Athletic build
· Loves to travel
· Loves the outdoors
· Daring
· Hasn’t been married before
· Humour
· Stability
· Respects me
"And going so long with never having a boyfriend I’ve honestly gotten used to and really learned about myself.”
Danyelle is very careful to be honest about her unusual requirements when she does meet anyone new.
"I straight up tell guys on the first date and if it bothers them then I leave,” she says.
“If not then I’ll see how the rest of the dates go.
“I don't want to end up with someone that I'm going to divorce later on because my parents just got divorced probably 10 years ago, so I think that's really affected me being single.
“Honestly, sometimes I think I'm better off just being alone because I can afford everything on my own. I don't need someone to tie me down.”
What is celibacy?
The dictionary definition of celibacy is the “state of abstaining from marriage and sexual relations”, which includes masturbation.
It is usually associated with a religious belief, and can result from a vow.
It is often mixed up with sexual abstinence, but the two are slightly different.
Abstinence is often for a limited time, such as not engaging in sexual relations until marriage.
While Danyelle admits that she is quite happy going solo she does hope to find someone to meet her needs one day.
NOT SETTLING
“I do want to settle but I just want to make sure when I find my person, they have the same value as me, they know what they want in life and do all those same fun things that I want to do,” she says.
“I just don't want to settle just to settle.
“The longest a date has ever progressed for me is when it got up to the third day and then nothing ever happened from there.
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“At this point, I even tried to send myself to these dating shows because sometimes people find love there.
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“I feel like my man is in another country, and America is not working right now for me. But I know God has a plan.
“I'm going to keep doing everything that I like to do. And when I know that person comes along, we're going to click, and he's going to be the one, and I'm going to be so glad I waited so long to find my man.”
