DEAR DEIDRE: I enjoy watching porn featuring well-endowed men so much that I’m worried I might be gay.
Although I’ve never had sex with a man – or wanted to – seeing “big” men really turns me on.
I’m 32 and single, although I have had lots of girlfriends. Like many men, I enjoy watching porn sometimes.
My tastes aren’t extreme. But lately, I’ve found myself specifically searching for videos of men with enormous penises.
I’m average-sized and I’ve never had a complex about my penis.
But seeing a woman get sexually dominated by these men really gets me going. I’ve noticed that when I watch the videos, I fixate on the men, not the women.
Now I’m concerned this means I might be gay or bisexual. Am I right to question my sexuality?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Enjoying watching men with big penises having sex with women doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re gay.
Rather than wanting to have sex with those men, it sounds like you want to be them.
It’s the idea of dominating a woman that turns you on. It excites you because it’s probably not like your own sexual experiences.
Read my Sexual Fantasies support pack for more about why we have them and what we can do if they’re becoming a problem.
