My man is disabled & trolls think we can’t have sex & say I’m with him for his cash…but we’ve had the most gorgeous baby
A WOMAN has revealed that her man is disabled and nasty trolls often make cruel assumptions about their relationship.
From assuming that they can’t have sex to claiming that she’s with him for his money, Winston and Mayfair Clements, a Christian couple who are “totally in love”, have clapped back at mean keyboard warriors and set the record straight about their marriage.
The pair met in 2018, started dating in 2019 and got married in 2020.
Just a year into their marriage, the couple welcomed their first child, a gorgeous baby girl.
Winston and Mayfair document their day-to-day lives as an ‘interabled couple’ on social media and aim to address common misconceptions around disability and relationships, in the hope of creating a “kinder and more inclusive world.”
In one video, the couple addressed the common assumptions and questions they receive.
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Firstly, they explained that people will often wonder: “How do they even do it [have sex]?”
If that wasn’t bad enough, the duo then shared that people assume: “She must be with him for the money.”
They revealed that others even ask: “Is this some kind of joke?”
The pair then claimed that people will often say to them: “I have so many questions.”
But the couple think that people should “say what they really mean”, as they shared what they think about the common accusations, as they assumed people are “too narrow minded to accept that someone with a disability can be happily married.”
When it comes to the pair having sex, in another video, Mayfair explained: “I'm being taken care of, okay?
“My needs are met. You don't have to worry about me. I am very happy.
“Just leave it at that. No one has to know all of the great details.
“As long as you're happy, as long as you're getting your needs met, as long as your man is getting his needs met, then you don’t have to prove anything to anyone.”
Winston then added: “Yeah, there's nothing to prove to anyone.”
But not only are the couple satisfied in the bedroom, but they also confirmed that within the first year of their marriage, they had a beautiful baby girl.
In a now-viral clip, we saw Winston with his daughter, as he wheeled up to her high chair in his electric chair.
The couple responded to people’s assumption that “people with disabilities can’t have children naturally” as they shared that they are “living proof.”
The TikTok clip, which was posted under the username @theclements2020, has clearly left many open-mouthed, as it has quickly racked up a staggering 10.6 million views.
Despite the flood of comments of people asking “how?”, many social media users rushed to the comments to gush over the couple’s cute baby girl.
One person said: “Disability is not in ability...you have a beautiful daughter.”
Another added: “Oh, that baby looks just like her daddy. She’s beautiful.”
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A third commented: “She is gorgeous.”
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