I am cheating on my partner with hunky cousin – and he’s married too
I AM hooked on sex with my cousin but he is married and our family would be outraged if they knew about us.
His wife is a bit stuck up and I’ve never really taken to her but when she asked me to babysit for them a few months ago I agreed as their kids are fantastic fun.
She was going out to her sister’s birthday and he had a work dinner planned.
Half an hour after his wife had gone, he came down in his pyjamas and admitted he had lied about having a function and just wanted to spend a quiet evening with me.
It was the beginning of our affair. I am a woman of 24 and he is nine years older.
He has been married for seven years and they have two children who I often look after.
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I have adored my cousin since I was a youngster and I was overwhelmed to have him sitting beside me in a quiet house in his nightclothes.
He is amazingly handsome, kind and thoughtful.
My heart leaps whenever he looks at me. That first evening we spent together was wonderful.
He put his arm around me and when I didn’t resist, he kissed me.
Then we kissed again and he removed enough of my clothing for him to feel me all over.
The next time his wife was out he was supposed to be working late but he came home as soon as he was sure she had left the house.
We wasted no time. We went to their bedroom and closed the door so their boys could not hear us.
Then we made love twice. It was magical. I am completely smitten but even if he left his wife, our families would not accept our relationship.
I want to be with him. I can’t concentrate on anything and I keep hoping there may be some way that our affair could be made into something more legitimate.
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DEIDRE SAYS: There is nothing but heartbreak in this for you.
It doesn’t sound like you have spoken to your cousin about where he thinks this is leading – and I suspect this is because you know you would not like the answer.
You are avoiding the truth and the inevitable. He is offering you nothing but secret sex.
Finish this before his wife finds out, the fallout would be catastrophic for all of you.
Realistically, you could be driven out of your family.
Just think how his children, who you adore and love you back in equal measure, would react. Keep away.
Socialise and meet people your own age so you can find someone who really cares for you.