One woman is killed every week by their partner or an ex – tackling domestic abuse MUST be a priority for this election
SHOCKING new figures published by charity Women's Aid today reveal that over half of abuse sufferers referred to a refuge find themselves turned away.
Campaigners fear the issue of domestic abuse and funding of shelters is being overlooked as an election issue.
Research shows incidences of domestic violence can increase during big football tournaments. So with Euros about to kick off, there will be many abuse sufferers living in fear.
Today actress and Women's Aid patron Dame Julie Walters explains why, whoever forms the next government, must make domestic abuse a priority.
'It affects people everywhere'
Frightening statistics from Women’s Aid, where I am a proud Patron, show that over 60 per cent of referrals into refuge are rejected, with the most common reason being a lack of space and capacity in services (over 24 per cent) – domestic abuse urgently needs to be a priority for every political party.
Despite many years of campaigning, including important campaigning by The Sun with Women’s Aid to keep refuge doors open, there is so much more to do.
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And ahead of a general election, every political party needs to have domestic abuse and dealing with violence against women as a serious priority.
With at least one woman being killed every week in England and Wales by a current or former partner, if domestic abuse is left out of political manifestos, things could only get worse.
With one in four women experiencing domestic abuse at some point in their lifetime, as well as male victims and the many children growing up in homes where there is domestic abuse, it is an issue that affects people in every town and city across the country.
Domestic abuse is an issue for every government department, and any future government needs to be planning for how they are going to work to end it, listening to both survivors’ voices and the domestic abuse experts around the country who have worked to save lives for decades.
At Women’s Aid we know first-hand that the greatest heroes are ones you never know about unless you need them, and having a safe place to go to where people understand what you are going through and help you rebuild your life are the reasons why many survivors are able to escape a life lived in fear.
We have seen in recent years some important progress, with the Domestic Abuse Act in 2021 bringing in a number of improvements that have built on the recognition of coercive control as a criminal offence in 2015.
Economic abuse is recognised as domestic abuse, children are recognised as victims in their own right, and a new offence for strangulation that doesn’t end in death.
But there is such a long way to go.
We know that many women trying to get the help that could save their lives are being turned away, whether it is because there is not the refuge space there for them or because migrant women still do not have the right to access lifesaving services if they are being abused.
We know that survivors of domestic abuse are scared that their abusers might be let out of prison early because of the early release scheme.
We have been told there are refuges where the TV is not turned on because the sound of the football brings back awful memories for some of the women and children living there.
Dame Julie Walters
Domestic abuse doesn’t end when the relationship ends – women who have left abusers still live in fear.
We need to deliver the lifesaving services women need now, and need to build a world where domestic abuse does not exist in the future, by investing in prevention and challenging misogyny and sexism in schools and workplaces alike – we need to get to the root cause and drive out abusive behaviour.
We need to invest now to save both money and lives further down the line, with domestic abuse costing society nearly £78 billion a year.
The Euros are nearly upon us and should be a happy time but it won't be for everyone.
As whether England win or lose, research shows us that where there is already abuse happening, it can become more frequent or severe at the time of big games.
How you can get help
Women's Aid has this advice for victims and their families:
- Always keep your phone nearby.
- Get in touch with charities for help, including the Women’s Aid live chat helpline and services such as SupportLine.
- If you are in danger, call 999.
- Familiarise yourself with the Silent Solution, reporting abuse without speaking down the phone, instead dialing “55”.
- Always keep some money on you, including change for a pay phone or bus fare.
- If you suspect your partner is about to attack you, try to go to a lower-risk area of the house – for example, where there is a way out and access to a telephone.
- Avoid the kitchen and garage, where there are likely to be knives or other weapons. Avoid rooms where you might become trapped, such as the bathroom, or where you might be shut into a cupboard or other small space.
If you are a victim of domestic abuse, SupportLine is open Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 6pm to 8pm on 01708 765200. The charity’s email support service is open weekdays and weekends during the crisis – messageinfo@supportline.org.uk.
Women’s Aid provides a live chat service - available weekdays from 8am-6pm and weekends 10am-6pm.
You can also call the freephone 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.
We have been told there are refuges where the TV is not turned on because the sound of the football brings back awful memories for some of the women and children living there.
As well as asking the public for support, we are asking for support from those with the most power, those who are campaigning right now to form our future government.
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I say to them, if you care about domestic abuse, if you care about survivors, and you care about reducing violence against women in the future – tell Women’s Aid member organisations around the country that they have your support to keep lifesaving refuge and domestic abuse service doors open.
Because without your full and continuous support, more women and children will be turned away from the services that could save their lives.